HONOR AND LOVE ❤️

 

Morayo Afolabi Brown is one of my favorite person on Television. I have been following her since her days hosting the popular TV show "Your View" on TVC and until now that she has grown to build her own brand "The Morayo Show." She has been a phenomenal to watch on TV, no wonder she's branded the Queen of Talk according to her book "Becoming the Queen of Talk TV".

But the most attractive and amazing thing to me about Mo' is how she carries her husband with so much respect and honor which I believe is worth emulating by most married women. I have heard her on TV how she appreciates her husband for every little thing, his support for her dream and family, even though she also agreed to the fact that her husband is a typical African Man that's not really romantic. She has come to embrace the flaws of her man and appreciate his strength.

She recently created a platform to showcase her husband. A podcast called "Brown's Couch" that she asked her husband to air his views on some trending News and you can see the maturity that goes into both of them on the couch. This couple made me to understand the importance of intimacy in marriage and how it transcends beyond the bedroom. The reason every spouse should desire physical, spiritual, mental and emotional intimacy to achieve a beautiful marriage.

A woman who truly honours her man will respect him, stand by him, support his dreams, and proudly showcase him to the world—not because he is perfect, but because she sees his worth beyond his flaws. True love celebrates, supports and never humiliates.

Honouring your spouse is one of the greatest expressions of true love in marriage. It means respecting your partner, appreciating their efforts, protecting their dignity and never making them feel less valuable, whether in public or in private. 

Marriage is not a competition for superiority but a partnership built on love, respect, sacrifice and understanding. Never allow pride, anger or familiarity to make you disrespect the person you once prayed to have. Celebrate your spouse, speak kindly to them and make them feel valued. Remember, a marriage flourishes when both partners feel loved, respected and honoured.

In conclusion, Ephesians 5:33 "Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” 

FEELS LIKE DÉJÀ VU

This feels like déjà vu,
A road I've walked before,
The same darkness greets my eyes,
The same waves kiss the shore.
Were we chase tomorrow's promises,
Yet borrow yesterday's pain,
We lose, we heal, we hope again,
Still dancing in the aching rain.
 
Dejavu; a Friend close to my heart.
A bond shared not in doubt.
We ran the race from Poly to Glory.
A dream we carried, but now seemed stolen.
Every time spent together was in splendor.
I'm so glad to share our beautiful story of grandeur.
We had a similar family structure.
Same parental occupational struggle.
We believed in one another
Bounce by bounce we doubled the hustle.
Our days in school was fun and glorious
You are the social part of me, a partying type never furious.
We studied together also chasing the ladies.
We set the standards for the sophisticated babies.
I remember them always asking if we were blood brothers,
I will laugh asking if it’s because our eye balls are big and broader.
 
 
Though my painful tears fall today
But they are born from gratitude.
Having a friend like you was one of life's greatest gift
Always with a positive attitude.
Your loyalty was undoubtedly pure
A comrade ever faithful, ever sure.
Your dance step was nice and funny
Your acapella voice, a sound of honey.
You gave us joy with your leadership stubbornness
A grateful heart with hopeful willingness.
A tough guy you are, with a soft heart
You shared your love and impact on earth.
 
Deji, you spent your life leaving a positive mark.
A legible print in the sand of time.
You gave your all to life’s course.
A jolly good friend you are to everyone.
But unfortunately; fate spoke too soon,
Stealing you before your time, (Gone too Soon)
Leaving behind questions with no answers
And a silence too heavy for words thereafter.
Guy, your death is so hard to accept
The man I knew so well, now lives in memories,
Painfully looking through your pictures in my gallery
The friend I expect to grow old with,
Left suddenly on the heavenly journey without a hint.
 
 
But I choose to remember you well; my homeboy,
Not by the way you left
But by the countless days you truly lived.
Your leadership in every situation
Either in the classroom, boardroom or on the dance floor
Everywhere, your influence is always with a high score.
You used the stage well at every stage
You were the smile that brightened every room,
The life of every gathering,
The friend who never needed an invitation-
To make ordinary moments unforgettable.

You are always full of life.
Truly, your kind is irreplaceable.
 
Perhaps life’s déjà vu is not a trick the mind has spun,
But a metaphoric wisdom whispering softly to us all.
Let’s Live each day with purpose,
because tomorrow is never guaranteed.
Make peace where there is conflict, 

Forgive while you have the chance,
And let your actions reflect the values you want to be remembered for.
Knowing; We cannot choose the day we leave this world,
But we can choose the kind of life we live before the day comes.
 
Rest peacefully, my dear brother and friend.
‘’AYODEJI SOLADEMI’’ (Skibaa)
Your laughter and baritone voice will continually echo in our hearts.
Your friendship will never be forgotten
And your memory will remain a light-
that time can never dim.
Until we meet again my homeboy,
You may be gone from our sight
But you will never be gone from my heart.
ADIEU!!! Dejavu
 
Yommybishop......July 2026

Tribute to a brother and Friend……Ayodeji Solademi (Dejavu) Skiibaa

Who passed to Glory on Wednesday 15th July 2026 after a brief illness.

KING OF MALICE

Don't be a King of Malice.
Keeping Malice is a way of intimidating your partner emotionally.
When you keep Malice in a relationship, 

You are only killing the Friendship.
Malice kills intimacy and fosters hatred.

The harshest battles are not fought with swords,
But in the heavy, bitter space of words,
Or in the suffocating quiet where
A thousand unspoken resentments fill the air.

Two souls who promised once to stand as one,
Now turn away as if the light is gone.
A slammed door echoes in the dead of night,
While petty grudges hide the memory of light.

They share a room, yet they sleep apart.

They share a table, yet they dine apart,
With icy armor shielding every part.
The silent treatment—sharp and cold as stone
Is meant to make the other feel alone.

They build a fortress out of pride and spite,
Where shadows conquer every ray of light.

Don't be a King of Malice,
Malice is the intention or desire to do evil, 

To cause emotional injury, or upset the other. 
It stems from active ill will, bitterness, or a hostile impulse.

Poison doesn't always need a cup,
Sometimes, it’s just the things we swallow up.
The stubborn will to never yield or bend,
Turns every sweet beginning to an end.

Yet underneath the silence and the pride,
A desperate yearning lingers deep inside.
To tear the heavy walls of malice down,
And trade the bitter thorn for friendship’s crown.

Malice is an unseen trauma

People that keep it are always in for drama.

They don't like to be corrected, 
They believe they're right and never wrong. 
They create a defensive silence of emotional wall.
They find it hard to apologize when they are wrong 

And also find it hard to forgive all along.

Don't be a King or Queen of Malice.

Malice will only destroy you and your relationship.

That silent treatment is an evil gesture.

Evil always destroy even itself in nature.

Stop the urge of retaliation, it only worsen situation.

Don't push your partner to find succor elsewhere.

Seek trauma Therapy, and you will become Happy.

THE ART OF SOUND

Give me that sweet sound

As I play you with my fingers

Running different scales and notes

On the strings tight on bolt.

The rhythm of the season

Is what gives me every reason

To pour out emotions 

And strike every chord with caution. 

The sounds you produce at my every touch

Gives me the confidence not to rush.

The vibrant vibration, gives a willing player liberation.

Cos your sound is powerful

Your tonic sofa reinvigorates me like tonic water.

Close to the heart you are like a Violin.

Hard, yet soft and silky 

A victory sound so milky.

Give me that sweet sound.

As I play you with my both hands.

Holding you close and tight, makes me feel all is right.

You are the best sound after the Organ

Which produces sounds through the pipes.

It gives orgasms at highest scales 

The pinnacle of every playing stage.

Let this Opera be mine

As I bend you to my submission.

Let's create the art of music

With mass orchestra at our grooving 

Let's tell a story through sound

Gaining momentum as our love abounds.

The purest heart cut in size.

It's the heart of musing,

The art of sound.

Yommy Bishop...... 29th Feb 2026

ARE YOU BITTER OR BETTER.?

 

WHEN 2 BEST FRIENDS FIGHT BITTER

Amazing story about these 2 great ladies who are high flyers in their professions and are good friends. People envied and loved their friendship and how they both collaborate to create a wonderful moments.

Unfortunately, they could not manage themselves when it comes to misunderstanding and conflict resolution. They implode due to pride, hearsay, unhealthy competition, misinterpretation of intentions, and most times, hidden jealousy which is a common factor among women.

Women always attach sentiments and ego when in a conflict situation, they will sense disrespect and betrayal at the same time. They assume what is not there by awfulising what is not awful. They ride on their emotions, yet both parties will never agree to their own wrongdoing (grandstanding). The more outsiders try to resolve their fight, the more it becomes messier. 

In the situation of good friends. it's only the Holy Spirit that can minister to their hearts to Forgive and move on after a serious disagreement (which they might classify as betrayal). To err is still human and to Forgive is divine. They should both know the DEVIL does not love beautiful and peaceful places, he will always want to find a way in their midst. Yes; It's okay to have misunderstanding but never okay to dwell on it. Because an unresolved conflict will always lead to bitterness. 

Bitterness, however is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. It harms you more than anyone else. Bitterness is like a cancer, the bible advises in Ephesians 4:31 "Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice"

So, in any situation of conflict with a friend or family member, lets always make love, not war. Lets forgive one another. Mark 11:25, also states: "And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive your sins".

Remember, you either get BITTER or you get BETTER. ❤️

Yommybishop....... 28th August 2025

A CASE STUDY OF ALASEYORI AND APEKEOLA. 

TOTAL STRANGER.

 

Last night, I slept with a stranger,
I woke up confused, like a soundless thunder.
How could this be.?
An alien by my side, with no emotions attached.
She won't speak my language, not even get on my page.
She won't explain how, she became now.
Darkness all around, Cloud of stormy weather
Unnecessary all together
What a lost feeling, the emotions she's killing.

It hurts the most when the person that made you feel special yesterday makes you unwanted today. 

Strangers can become best friend just as easy best friends can become strangers.

Last night, i slept with a stranger
I hope I'm not in danger.?

Yommybishop (26th June 2019)

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